2009年5月4日 星期一

到底要怎麼教小孩子有禮貌呢?

前陣子Daniel在放學時,
用腳高高的把鞋子往上甩,
結果不小心鞋子甩到了其他家長-A君
A君看他年紀還小,也沒有指責Daniel
還寬宏大量的引導Daniel在這時候該對人家說什麼呢??(標準答案當然就是「對不起」or「Sorry」囉!)
結果牛牌氣的Daniel一直不肯道歉~~
在一直遭追問要說什麼的情況下
最後Daniel終於說了........「把我的鞋子還給我~~」

Oh my God~~
真是沒禮貌的小孩啊!

不過他就是這麼牛牌氣,也有好幾次因為耍牛牌氣而被我修理
但還是死性不改....

到底要怎麼教會小孩子有禮貌呢??

2 則留言:

  1. I think you have already taught him that. It's just that you did NOT see the result. But, I think Daniel has learned your attitude and the time to apologize. He didn't say that because he thought he was too embarrassed. Believe me, to him, saying sorry at that moment was like guarding Kobe Bryant on the court. It would be impossible for you no matter how angrily your coach is yelling at you. Good news is, that does not mean he did not learn. Maybe next time he will realize that saying sorry is the easiest way out.

    Research has shown us that sometimes parents have to show their attitude more than 30 times to make their children learn to do the right thing in the right time. It is an art. So, keep trying and feel less obliged about this time.

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  2. Thanks for the comment.
    I'll keep acting as the coach and yelling at Daniel~~~

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